In 2021, we were bright-eyed, bushy-tailed, and fully convinced that buying our first townhouse was a stepping stone. A 3-5 year plan, tops. We had stars in our eyes and HGTV-fueled dreams of "bigger and better" — a detached home with a yard, a double car garage, and the classic checklist of everything you’re supposed to want next.

We were ready to chase that dream, just like everyone said we should.
But fast forward to today, and… four years later we're still in that same townhouse. And honestly? We kind of love it and don’t plan on moving in the next 12 months to hit our 5 year ‘deadline’ in this home.

Back then, we had ambitious plans — we’d renovate top to bottom, sell at peak value, and roll our equity into the next place. Flooring! Paint! Bathrooms! Kitchen! Baseboards and trim! The whole shebang. What did we actually manage? One painted room, a coat of paint on the kitchen cabinets, a new backsplash, and fresh countertops. That’s it. And yet somehow, it’s still enough.

Because over time, we realized what we actually love about not owning a bigger home — is not maintaining one.

Would I like a linen closet? Abso-freaking-lutely — like literally one more closet would make my life SO much easier.  Would Alex love to park right in front of our door instead of walking 30 extra steps to the street? Of course but luckily for those -30 wintery days, his remote car start reaches the street from our living room 😂
Are those little annoyances enough to make us want to pack up, spend more, and sign ourselves up for extra cleaning, yard work, and likely some expensive renovations on a bigger place? Not a chance.

When we first bought, it made sense. Our pain point was renting — the rotating cast of roommates, the lack of stability, the feeling that our living situation didn’t match the life we were trying to build as a couple. And we could feel the real estate market heating up, so we knew if we didn’t make a move soon, we might not be able to at all or we’d at the very least be making a heck of a lot more compromises than needing one more closet and a dedicated parking spot.

Now in 2025, our pain points just don’t outweigh the hassle of moving. So here we are — in a condo we initially saw as temporary, but which turns out to be perfectly suited to how we actually live. It’s low maintenance, easy to lock-and-leave for weekend adventures, and cozy in all the right ways.

This is something I talk to my real estate clients about all the time: What’s your why? Why do you want to move?
Because moving isn’t easy — it’s disruptive, it’s expensive, and it needs to be worth it. So what is it about your current living situation that isn’t working?

Maybe you're…

• Living with roommates when you're ready for privacy and independence

• Sharing one bathroom with three kids and it’s pure chaos

• Dealing with a pet who’s terrified of elevators so you unknowingly moved into a 3rd-floor walk-up

• Using your garage as a bike shop, gear shed, and storage locker because your hobbies are outgrowing your space

• Sick of mowing the lawn and ready for condo life where someone else handles that

If any of that sounds like you — and it's impacting your quality of life — then maybe it is time for a change. But if you're mostly content and the pain points are small things that can be managed with a little creativity or compromise? That’s okay too.

There’s this lingering idea from older generations that “real success” means upgrading to a detached house with the white picket fence and the golden retriever. But for us? We’ve learned that success is living in a home that supports the life you want to live. For Alex and I, that life includes skiing, biking, hiking, and not spending our weekends cleaning an extra 800 square feet we don’t need.

Sure, a guest room for visiting family would be nice. But is it worth taking on more space, more stress, and a bigger mortgage for a room that gets used five weekends a year? Absolutely not.

So no, we’re not moving anytime soon. And if anyone asks when we’re getting a “real” house?
We already have one — it just doesn’t come with a lawn mower.

Want help figuring out if it’s your time to move? Let’s talk about your pain points — and your priorities — and see what makes the most sense for you.  Or click here to Download my free guide to getting started in the Real Estate market.

Downhill Skiing Delights:

Are you ready to carve your way through some of the most breathtaking slopes in the world? Look no further than the Bow Valley, home to premier downhill skiing destinations like Nakiska, Norquay, Sunshine, and Lake Louise.

• Nakiska Ski Area: Host to the 1988 Winter Olympics, Nakiska offers 79 runs for all skill levels and a tube park, set against the stunning backdrop of Kananaskis Country.

• Mount Norquay: Located near Banff, Mount Norquay boasts challenging terrain across four mountain faces, along with panoramic views of Banff National Park.  Norquay offers tubing for those not looking to hit the slopes but want a quick adrenaline hit and night skiing on weekends.

• Sunshine Village: With abundant snowfall and vast terrain, Sunshine Village promises unforgettable powder days and thrilling chutes.  Sunshine also offers some great ‘slack-country’ skiing so if you have Avalanche training & equipment, bring your skins & beacon to head out of bounds when safe to do so.

• Lake Louise Ski Resort: Nestled in Banff National Park, Lake Louise features diverse terrain across 4,200 acres, making it a favorite among skiers and snowboarders alike.

Cross-Country Skiing Serenity:

While the Bow Valley is renowned for its downhill skiing, it also offers a haven for cross-country skiing enthusiasts, with the crown jewel being the Canmore Nordic Centre.

• Canmore Nordic Centre: Situated just minutes from downtown Canmore, the Canmore Nordic Centre is a world-class facility that hosted the Nordic events during the 1988 Winter Olympics. Boasting over 65 kilometers of meticulously groomed trails, the Centre caters to skiers of all abilities, from beginners to elite athletes. With its stunning mountain backdrop and variety of terrain, the Canmore Nordic Centre provides a picturesque setting for a day of cross-country skiing.

• Banff National Park: For those seeking a wilderness experience, Banff National Park offers an extensive network of track-set trails that wind through pristine forests and meadows. From easy loops to challenging routes, there's something for everyone to enjoy amidst the breathtaking scenery of the Canadian Rockies.

• Peter Lougheed Provincial Park (PLPP): Venture into the heart of Kananaskis Country and discover the beauty of Peter Lougheed Provincial Park. With well-maintained trails that traverse a diverse landscape of forests, lakes, and alpine meadows, this park offers an ideal setting for cross-country skiing adventures.

• Mount Shark: Located south of Canmore, Mount Shark is a hidden gem for cross-country skiers. With its remote location and stunning mountain vistas, Mount Shark provides a peaceful escape from the crowds, allowing you to immerse yourself in the beauty of the backcountry while exploring its groomed trails.

Whether you're gliding through the manicured tracks of the Canmore Nordic Centre or exploring the pristine wilderness of Banff National Park and beyond, cross-country skiing in the Bow Valley offers a serene and rejuvenating experience amidst some of the most spectacular scenery in the world. Nordic Pulse is a great resource to see current grooming and trail conditions.

Backcountry Bliss (with Caution):

For those seeking a more adventurous skiing experience, the Bow Valley and Canadian Rockies offer unparalleled opportunities for backcountry ski touring and splitboarding. However, it's essential to remember that venturing into the backcountry requires advanced skiing abilities and a thorough understanding of avalanche safety.

Before embarking on any backcountry adventure, be sure to familiarize yourself with avalanche awareness and practiced rescue knowledge, proper equipment, and always check the Avalanche Forecast & Weather Conditions before heading out. With the right skills and precautions, backcountry skiing in the Bow Valley can be an exhilarating and rewarding experience, allowing you to explore untouched powder and breathtaking landscapes far from the crowds.  AST1 is a must and AST2 is recommended, click here for current course offerings.

Whether you're drawn to the adrenaline rush of downhill skiing, the serenity of cross-country skiing, or the thrill of backcountry exploration, the Bow Valley offers something for every winter enthusiast. So grab your skis or snowboard, and get ready to discover the winter wonderland that awaits in this spectacular corner of the Canadian Rockies.

Please note for Nakiska, the Canmore Nordic Center, PLPP & Mount Shark, a Kananaskis Conservation Pass is required to park your car at any of these locations.  For Norquay, Sunshine, Lake Louise and any cross-country trailheads in Banff National Park (including the Town of Banff & Lake Louise Village & Lake), a Discovery Pass is required to park in any of these locations.  Passes for both Kananaskis and the National Parks can be purchased ahead of time or on the way to your location.  At the time of publishing this blog post, a daily family National Park pass is $22 or annual is $151.25 so if you are going to go into any of the National Parks (Banff, Kootenay, Yoho, etc.) more than 7 days in a 12 month period, it’s best to buy the annual pass and the Kananaskis Pass is $15 for the day or $95 for the year so again, you only need to go 6 days in a 12 month period to make it worthwhile just to buy the annual pass.  If you are visiting both areas, you need both passes - the Kananaskis Conservation pass and the National Discovery Pass are independent of each other - which is especially fun if you’re hiking to Assiniboine via Sunshine to Mount Shark and you car drop at both locations.. and have to have both park passes.